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et's face it, guys don't always get it. Even when it comes to their wedding day, they
think they can toss on a great dark suit and stroll down the aisle in style. My groom
even wore white sweat socks! If your fiance is one of those sartorially challenged
men, have him read this advice, courtesy of Mens Wearhouse's very informative Web site.
You or your fianceé can stroll through www.menswearhouse.com.
* First, look at the invitation. If it says "Black Tie," keep reading. However, if the
script at the bottom says "Black Tie Optional," unless you're winning something, Do Not
opt for the tux. You'll be sorry. Stick with a dark suit and tie.
However, should the invitation say "Creative Black Tie," whatever you do ignore
the first word. This adjective is the work of an insidious party planner who probably conjured
it up in a desperate attempt to make the party more festive after discovering the
budget didn't allow for enough streamers and balloons. You want to be creative? Take a
pottery class. Let's stick to looking good.
* If you're over 18 and have stopped growing (in relation to your pituitary gland, not your Doritos
intake), we recommend you invest in formal wear. This is not the extravagance you think it to be.
Formal wear - tailored to fit you and only you - is the best way to present yourself at the top
your form. You are not only telling people you are ready for any occasion, but that you have the confidence
to know you belong in this world of special events.
SHOE IN
Patent leather pumps, grosgrain slippers or suede slip-ons have always been the posh footwear to
accessorize tuxedos, but with the new informality in formality, there are many other options now. But
doesn't mean you can slip into your black penny loafers or the brogues you wear to the office. And
can only go the sneaker route if you're winning a Grammy. To go with your outfit, you may find it
easier and simpler to go with a well-made, high-grade leather shoe with a high-buff shine. They can be
either a lace-up, a tool-free ankle-length boot or a clean lined loafer.
SHIRTS OR SKINS?
We know there are options in this next category, but do yourself a favor.
Look terrific. Look right. Look like you belong. Please! Opt for a white shirt. No
other color. Ruffles, no ruffles, French cuffs or button, wing collar or regular.
Please don't go no collar-it's very '80s.) That's your choice. But a white shirt
feels and looks right. Trust us on this one.
STUD OR NOT TO STUD?
To stud or not to stud. We're not talking about your dating options, but
rather whether or not you will want to wear studs in your dress shirt. Or, you
might opt for either classic white pearlized buttons or a shirt with a hidden
placket front. All are acceptable, so it is really a matter of taste. Difficult as they
to set, studs are a spiffy option.
FIT TO BE TIED
Bow tie or long tie? The former has always been the standard and is not
going away anytime soon. However, there has been a strong surge in accessorizing
dinner jackets with either a white or black high sheen silk tie. Whichever you
choose, know that the long tie looks best with a single button jacket, or with a
vest, and never looks right with a cummerbund. The bow tie never looks wrong.
